What's the difference?

Trust me when I say this...there will NOT be many things that I will post about that go on between my husband and I. Some things might slip through the cracks, or that he might say something that I feel the need to share with the general public to help them become more aware of these things.

Without giving too much details about everything going on...we were talking about weight. And I mentioned that I want to be healthy and not skinny, in which his response was "What's the difference?"

After taking great offense, he suddenly changed his tone by saying that he knows that just because you're skinny doesn't always mean that you are healthy.

Innnnndeeeed! I can not stress that enough! I could make myself skinny (if I really wanted to!) but the way I would have to go about doing so would make me become very unhealthy. Even then, I would look gaunt! Who wants to be with a bag of bones anyways? Expectational when you think back to the 1940-1950s with the pin ups...any man who doesn't think those women, even today, isn't sexy...well, he simply must not be into women!

And that's my goal...to become healthy. I want to be able to love me for me, and be happy with who I am.